We had an exceptionally good weekend. "We" meaning Nicholas. There were no tantrums, no major arguing, no big attitude, etc. This is rare and made me happy.
Last weekend came as a much welcomed surprise since he had an especially rough week. His outbursts and lack of self control had been apparent both at home and at school all last week so I was prepared for a long weekend of the same. But when the weekend was over and I realized that we had the opposite of the kind of weekend I was anticipating I began thinking about what it takes to have a "good" weekend. And I think it is important to share this because most people don’t understand Nicholas’, and therefore our, unique struggle, especially since, at first glance, Nicholas appears to be a typical child. When he starts to experience his issues in public strangers think he is just misbehaving and familiar people (family) tend to forget the complexity of the situation.
